1. In what context are you involved with orphan care?
Since 2009 I have had
the privilege to work with an orphan-care facility in Beijing. New Day Foster Home
provides life to orphans from all over China who otherwise wouldn't survive,
and it's been an incredible experience. At first my role at the foster home was
working one-on-one with children to help them develop and thrive, however in
2010 I was given the opportunity to run the foster home's social network and
begin to work more with our sickest, most critical little ones. I would spend
half of my day taking pictures, writing stories and responding to e-mails and the other half in our
Critical Care Unit working with the nannies to keep the babies stable and
comfortable. July, 2013, my family and I moved up North to Inner Mongolia where
we are starting New Day North. My role in this stage is communication with orphanages, weekly trips
to local orphanages, translating for trainings, assessments of the children's
developmental and nutritional status and a whole lot of other small things.
2. In your current context, what do you see as the biggest need?
In one of my first
orphanage visits a few years ago I was struck with the lack of "enough" in orphanages. I saw food, warmth, comfort,
love and care... but not enough. This realization has stuck with me as I work
with other orphanages, help to spread the word about orphans in China, and
advocate for children's medical care or adoption need. There is just not
"enough." Not enough people know about the little ones waiting over
the ocean in cribs lined up against the wall. Not enough families are willing
to take a leap of faith and begin the paperwork to bring an unknown child home.
Not enough of us will sacrifice financially, with our time or our energy to
really make The Fatherless a priority.
If each of us were to tell just one more person about orphans, adoption, the needs
or the, often small and do-able, ways that we can be involved, so much more
could happen and so many more children would know life and the love of a
family.
Just one? In all of
the orphanages that I have visited there were more boys than girls. This is a
shock, because our history and experience with orphans in China is that they
are all girls. Nope! Also, the effects of living in an orphanage are huge on
most children. They have suffered many things that cannot completely be
resolved in a few weeks of one-on-one love and care. I'm currently watching a
few children in an orphanage that we visit regularly act more and more
institutionalized each week. This shouldn't scare families from adopting, but
should inspire them to get the kids out as soon as possible. Don't let a child
wait one more day. They can heal. Their broken hearts can be stitched together,
just don't be in ignorance that there will be a seam.
I would hope that most
churches have an adoption support group. If not, start one. If so, get
involved.
Don't just advocate for adoption and support parents through the process... be there AFTER the airport. Piles of paperwork and approvals and funds are overwhelming, but it's nothing compared to bringing home a sad and scared child who needs to learn